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Last Updated: 9/16/2009 @ 10:05 AM There are as many dating theories out there as there are kooky dating-world-a-thons; what works for one person might not work for another, yet they all purport to be the best way to find true love. There’s also science—like looking at where you want to go to find love, or what you need to attract the type of guy (or gal) you want. Perhaps the most common theory has to do with shared hobbies: Or sports. Or the simplest rule of thumb: Just go out more and have fun. As someone who has been in the world of dating for over a decade, but who is always learning, I’ve compiled the best dating tips and dating theories for Internet dater’s (or maybe just yours truly) use. They may or may not work, but they’re all worth your consideration—and, perhaps, as an added bonus, some useful data—to help you find that perfect soul mate. Before we dive into the theory, let’s run through a few things about dating—and how the Internet (and your current situation) might play into your dating life. What Is Dating? Dating, of course, is a dynamic, ever-changing activity, and it can, and should, be done any number of different ways—depending on your interests, your personality, your time, and your emotional needs. And, let’s face it: If you’re not in a relationship now, chances are you’re either dating casually, or looking for something a little different. And why not? Having freedom to jump in and out of romantic situations and even having a chance to meet someone new is valuable. But of course, if the situation is less casual or more serious, it’s worth considering how you want to approach dating. Regardless of whether you are in the market for an LTR or just a casual fling, here are a few basics to keep in mind. For relationships—whether they be casual or serious—the love of your life often has a little more to say. Essential: Be Honest As we talked about above, even if you are totally comfortable with yourself, and even if you are oozing with confidence, you’re still an attractive, interesting human being. Be prepared for the fact that you might be laughed at when you say things like, «I’m looking for someone to hang out with and have
Once you’ve ponied up the dough for a dating site subscription or a month of paid, you need to make a plan. So, rather than write an essay about why you should date, the following pages will help you figure out if dating is for you. If it is, then let’s get real: You Go First. The first and most important thing to understand about dating is that it’s all about you. In other words, you’ll be the one taking the leap of faith to attempt meeting a prospective mate, and if you’re not sure whether you’re up to the task, you shouldn’t even try. How you end up having to look for love is a lot of the responsibility on your shoulders, and you need to feel confident enough to take it. Just because online dating,, OkCupid, and Plenty of Fish are the times they are a-changin’, doesn’t mean that all interactions are that way now. Sure, you can look at dating as a competition: OkCupid: Find lots of people who like you but not me. Plenty of Fish: Find lots of people who want to date me. Find one person I want to date. But, before we get into just how you should carry yourself, let’s look at your options. Your first step is deciding what kind of dating you want. It’s no secret that if you’re well-read, well-traveled, well-groomed, and have a great job that you’re attracting the right kind of people. These people might be interested in a casual fling while they’re on vacation, or they might be looking for something more serious. Likewise, if you’re willing to do some heavy editing and pare yourself down to a handful of needs and desires, you’ll be more likely to get someone who will meet those needs and desires. If you’re going to be ready to actually take someone out in public, you’ll probably want to do some pre-show grooming as well. Online dating sites will give you the best options out there, but you should also know that you’re not just limited to them. The internet can be a very untraditional place for finding love, and you have all sorts of other ways to meet people. We’ll go over ways to meet people in both the online and »

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